Feb. 2, 2015
Last Monday night Husby was sick, so I went to Tai Chi class
alone. But I had company once I got there – two women and a man. After six
months of progression, to go back to a Square-One class filled me with what I
learned tonight is called Yin (to the extreme): disappointment; bitterness and
frustration that God would give me such a gift and then yank it away – because
if new people join, Sifu has to teach to the lowest common denominator, leaving
nothing in-between for Husby and me; and hopelessness – again.
But the Yin only lasted 18 hours before turning to Yang (Yin
and Yang discussion to follow!) At class the next day, Husby and I were the
only ones to show up, so we got one-on-one time with Sifu, one more time. It
was a marvelous class full of the personalized nuances I have come to crave,
and so what I needed after the Plot Twist left me fearing Tai Chi would
end just as I was on the verge of realizing its healing effects. And at the end
of class Sifu told us he’s working with the Rec center to add a Forms class,
which is the next progression of Tai Chi study after a person learns the 45
Postures. I am utterly on-my-knees grateful for that. I knew every Monday night
that if someone new came, that class would have to go back to the very
beginning, and I was grateful every week that it didn’t. I knew the day would
inevitably come, but when it did, I wasn’t prepared for the emotions that
accompanied the realization that my progress had come to a screeching halt. A
simple Plot Twist can change everything in an instant; another Plot Twist can
turn everything again just as quickly.
I must insert here that the two women who “tried out” the
class last week didn’t return tonight, as I figured they wouldn’t; they clearly
were not feeling the Chi. The man has attended Sifu’s classes at other
locations, so although he doesn’t know the Postures well, he knows what they
are and has done them before. So Sifu did a new Qi Gong with the three of us and
took us through the Postures with a focus on Yin and Yang.
I can’t claim to speak with any authority about Yin and Yang
after one class, but I do grasp that in simple terms, Yin and Yang are two
opposing yet complementary aspects of everything in the universe. Yin examples
are dark, negative, night, cold and wet; Yang, then, is light, positive, day,
warm and dry.
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The Tai Chi symbol |
The constant interchange of Yin and Yang represents balance, as
depicted in a diagram called the Tai Chi symbol. We see Yin and Yang in the
crests and troughs of ocean waves, in night turning to day and winter to summer.
This isn’t a new concept to me; I have been taught in my faith that we can’t
appreciate good without evil, health without sickness, joy without grief. While
I have appreciated the principle as truth and found some comfort in recognizing
the value of trials, I have never seen it as a way of achieving balance.
In Tai Chi practice, we first learned basic postures by
trying to imitate the moves Sifu made. After learning the choreography of each
move, we began to learn that a Posture is actually a complex sequence of weight
shifts – Yin and Yang. If we try to move before the weight has shifted, we lose
balance and sometimes topple over. Chinese thought holds that Tai Chi creates
balance within our body through Yin and Yang movements.
The Postures felt different – and resonated more, if that
makes sense – with this new perspective in mind. It’s these intricate layers
that make Tai Chi increasingly satisfying – and we’ve only begun to scratch the
surface!
I’m grateful for the first Plot Twist, without which I might
not fully appreciate the second one, which is, in essence, God’s assertion that
He knows this class is a gift to me and
His mercy in not taking it away (while reminding me that He can!) It's like they were an object lesson of Yin and Yang that prefaced the class on Yin and Yang. Both of
these Twists also made me appreciate even more that Sifu is a gift from God –
he was healed by practicing Tai Chi and teaches with the selfless goal of helping
each of his students achieve balance
and healing; if that means adding a class so two students can continue to progress and heal, he'll commit some more of his time to do that.
Writing this journal helps me find and appreciate the good,
or Yang, sometimes by recognizing that things could be or have been worse, the
Yin. I can see God’s hand in leading me first to lunch with a friend who
inspired me to look for daily blessings, then quickly to someone who told me
about the Tai Chi class; recognizing blessings plays right into the Tai Chi
practice of moving Yin and Yang to create balance.
According to Chinese philosophy, anxiety, frustration, anger and
fatigue I feel can be balanced by bringing in more Yang. It seems so obvious,
right? What’s the quickest way to end a child’s tantrum or sulking? Tickle him!
But why do I not instinctively tickle myself? Sifu says it’s the Monkey Mind
that so dislikes change that it stubbornly resists.
I am grateful that Tai Chi gives me a daily practice
designed to slowly loosen the Monkey Mind’s grip, unblock energy flow and
restore balance. And grateful that my classes will continue for a while!